4 clear signs your ex isn’t over you.
1. They Still Want to Stay in Touch With You
If your ex still want to talk to you, it means they’ve not gotten over you. They still find it hard to accept that you are no longer together and won’t mind any possibility of a comeback.
They may be still fantasizing about the romantic memories they had with you and can’t come to terms that those good days are over.
Therefore, they will do everything possible to stay in touch with you. They will call you more often than you expect, text you regularly, and pay you visits if you give room for it.
If your ex tries to stay in touch with you, perhaps they realized how wrong they’d treated you and is now convinced you’re the best they will ever have; breaking up was not the best option.
2. They may Keep Acting Unusual
If your ex’s unusual behavior lasts for more than a period that could be considered unusual, he hasn’t forgotten about you. The breakup may still appear to them like an illusion they dont want to admit to.
Your ex may still be aggressive, start fights with the slightest provocation, or continue to drink more than usual, which is never out of habit. They may pick up the habit because of the pain the breakup might have caused.
In addition, for the few times you interact, they will be unable to keep a stable character. Sometimes, they act friendly, and sometimes otherwise. They simply dont want you to catch them nursing their wounds.
3. They became Jealous
Some people get agitated when their partners have moved on. Why do they hardly want to see their ex with new people? The simple answer is they are not over their ex.
It can be so dramatic that the people they see around you might not even be your new love. Their inability to get over you will drive them to act abnormally to anyone they assume to be your new love interest.
They ey may act like they are not jealous, but you will see it visibly in how they act. Moreover, if your ex keeps up this attitude, you should understand that there are chances they still want you.
4. Friends Always Want to Talk Things Out
They are not over you if friends try to settle the rift between you and your ex -this can happen in two ways.
First, you may think they sent friends to help talk to you to lay the matter to rest. However, it may not be. Friends perhaps observe how they discuss you and decide to talk you into getting back together.
The other way is that they are the one who sends friends to talk things out with you. They are not over you but can’t come to you directly. Hence, they send a friend you respect to talk to you on their behalf.
Besides, your ex isn’t over you if their friends constantly come to talk with you about settling the rift between the both of you. Therefore, you may as well consider if the relationship is worthy of a second chance.
