As a boyfriend or girlfriend, there are certain things you should not bother telling your partner to maintain a long-lasting relationship.
Let us talk about some things you should not reveal to your partner.
As a matter of fact, a relationship is meant to be rooted in integrity and trust; however, there is a limit to the level of openness as there are some things your partner does not necessarily need to know.
It is normal to be 90% open in a relationship and keep the other ten percent because some people cannot handle the truth when revealed. This does not mean they are bad people, just that they cannot stay sane or calm in the face of certain realities or revelations.
So instead of risking something beautiful over an inconsequential detail that’ll likely not hurt anyone if forever locked away in a vault, just keep mum and continue coasting with the love of your life.
Here are 7 times when it’s OK to leave some things unsaid
1. Your ѕєχυαℓ нιѕтσяу
For real, not many boyfriends/girlfriends want to hear the step by step narration and graphic details of how you had ѕєχ in a bathroom stall at the mall with your ex or some random babe.
2. Your body count
For the ladies, it is only your doctor or gynecologist that deserves to know this information about you.
3. That someone at work [or anywhere] has a crush on you
Really, this is literally opening the door for problems no one wants. Here’s the thing about revealing this information – you put your partner in a position to have his imagination roam and become paranoid.
4. That you have a crush on someone else
That you are absolutely in love with someone does not magically take away the ability to get attracted or start tripping for someone else.
So if you see yourself falling in love with another person, you may be going too extreme by revealing such information to your partner.
5. That you don’t like their parents
I’m not sure anyone wants to hear her boyfriend say he does not like her mum. Neither is there any guy who would stand for that.
The only time this may be OK is when you no longer value the relationship and you’re willing to let go of it.
6. That you snooped through their stuff
Even if you searched and found out that they’ve been loyal and loyal to you, keep the good news to yourself.
There really is no way to justify snooping through his stuff in the first instance. You’re going to come off as distrustful and things may just go downhill from there. Better keep the info to yourself.
7. That you still stalk his ex
Either as a guy or girl, you don’t need to let your boyfriend or girlfriend know you have been stalking their ex online (social media) or offline.
Your partner knowing about it will send a message of you been inserted, you don’t need that.
Sources: pulse.ng, ng.opera.news
