9 undeniable signs that he wants to keep you around for the rest of his life
1) He has eyes for one person only, you!
You’re out together hitting the clubs. There are tons of gorgeous women all over but he’s not bothered. Most men seem to have whiplash when they’re surrounded by a harem of babes, but nope, not your guy!
He doesn’t even seem to notice them. He is fixated on you and only you. This is a huge sign that he sees you as a long-term partner.
2) He wants to spend time with you!
He might have a very busy schedule but by no means is it stopping him from spending time with you.
If he’s clearing his calendar to see more of you, it’s an undeniable sign that he wants you in his future.
3) He’s not afraid of being vulnerable
A man who is afraid of being vulnerable will probably never commit to you because he doesn’t want to risk rejection.
He’s perpetually on guard because being vulnerable is risky for him and makes him feel unsafe.
When you show him that you accept his vulnerability and won’t reject him for what he says, then things can —he may be willing to commit himself after all!
It’s also a sign that you have a lot in common and that you have the potential to make a great long-term relationship.
4) He anticipates what you want and needs
He knows what makes your heart beat faster, what makes your tummy tingle, and what makes your smile appear.
Why?
Because he’s been taking notes on what you like and what you don’t so that he can impress you.
If he’s doing this, it’s a very positive sign that he sees you as a long-term partner.
He knows what you want and he’s willing to go above and beyond to get it for you. He’s committing to being your best man.
5) He doesn’t mind if you spend time with your friends
In fact, he will encourage it.
A smart man knows that to have a balanced relationship that will work in the long run, you both have to have your own identities.
This includes you spending time with your friends and him spending time with his guy friends.
6) He’s genuinely interested in your interests
Men are attracted to women who are independent and have their own interests and hobbies.
He knows that if he wants you, he has to be able to keep up with your hobbies and interests.
He will always make sure that he finds ways to learn about your life so that he can have something new and exciting to talk about with you.
It also shows that he’s invested in figuring out what makes you tick because he sees you as a long-term partner.
7) He always makes sure that his actions are in sync with his words
Men tend to be more direct than women.
This is because men think about what they want and say it, whereas women tend to be more passive and wait for men to tell them what they want.
He’s not going to make promises he can’t keep, but he will make sure that his actions are in sync with his words.
8) He trusts your decisions and respects your opinions (even if he doesn’t agree with them)
He never tries to change your mind about anything, but instead makes sure that he listens carefully so that he can learn what you like and don’t like.
If you find yourself on different sides of the fence but can still agree to disagree, this is a very healthy sign that you guys are going to make it.
9) He’s not afraid to show his feelings for you
Or, talk openly about them.
Most men want to puke at the very thought of getting all “mushy”, talking about their “feelings.”
Honestly, It’s like trying to draw blood from a stone most times so if he’s opening up and showing-telling you what he’s feeling, this is a surefire sign that he sees you as a long-term prospect.
10) He doesn’t try to change you
If a man is really into you and wants you in his life as a permanent fixture, instead of trying to change you, he’s going to embrace you the way you are.
That includes both good and bad and everything that makes you unique. He accepts you as is and he is thrilled with who you are.
Not who he wants you to be.
