Your Apology Needs To Be As Loud As Your Disrespect Was

Your excuses must be as strong as your lack of respect


How to apologize when you hurt someone

“I’m sorry” are two of the most powerful words in our shared human languages. We are talking about someone else, you have to apologize. In preschool, if you hurt someone, you apologize. But all that really matters is the surface level of what you need to do. There are a lot of internal things that have to happen if you want to apologize, and you have to express more than your excuses.

If you want to apologize, your excuses should be as disrespectful as what.
This is how you apologize to someone.

1. Say you’re sorry.

As I said before, “I’m sorry,” are two of the most powerful words you can utter. Expressing that you are sorry is the most important thing you can do when you are wrong with someone. It’s an admission that you understand. But to be fair, these are just words you should say. Apologize for something about which you are sorry for the words and your character.

2. List the ways you will change.

This part can be simple and brief. Talk about what you will do to make a mistake in the future.

3. Take stock of why you are sorry.

Before a word leaves your mouth, you must take into account why you are sorry. You must understand what you have done and empathize with the person to whom you have done it. Understanding why you are sorry is the first step. Without this part of the excuses, you can not really apologize.

4. Talk about what you have learned.

When you make a mistake, you should be able to learn something. Mistakes, especially with other people, provide us with important moments that are conducive to teaching. When you apologize, it’s just to cover your buttocks to trust. Can the other person really trust you? Talk about what it is.

5. Express that you understand why you are sorry.

It is important to say that you are sorry but that is not all you have to say. In order to make as strong an apology as your lack of respect, you must explain why you are sorry. Decomposes it. Talk about your actions and their clear impact on them. Affirm that you feel that this is absolutely essential to legitimize your excuses

6. Acknowledge that you understand the consequences.

Another part of your apology should be taken into account, perhaps with more severe consequences, if you make the same mistake again. The other party can not fully trust you if you do not understand this. These consequences deter you from acting again as you did. Make sure they know you know.

7. Ask for forgiveness.

The last step in the excuses process is to ask the other party to forgive you. If this is not the case, repeat one of the above steps until you know what needs to happen.

Apologizing is not always easy, but if your relationship with the open party matters, you will apologize fully and loudly – loud enough to match your lack of respect.