When you finally learn that a person’s behavior has more to do with their internal struggle than it ever did with you… You learn grace
There are people with bad personalities who do bad things to you. You may be angry or upset with them.
There are also people with other behaviors that often cause troubles to those around them. You underestimate them and try to avoid them.
One day you realize that people with such bad personalities and behaviors are also conflicted and torn inside. They are also unhappy with themselves when they are not as good as others.
They have to struggle with themselves. They also want to control themselves, want to live better. But the nature is very difficult to correct, they can hardly control their behavior. They suffer sorrows because of the conflicts inside them.
You should not blame them. You accept who they are and don’t care about them anymore. Because you understand that they are also extremely miserable.