When you have a good heart;
You help too much.
You trust too much.
You give too much. And it always seems like you’re the one who gets hurt the most.
In this life, we are strongly advised to act with a warm heart and a cold mind. Absolutely remember, these are the two things that must go together.
Why? If you only use the cold mind, you behave and act decisively to make sure that no one dominates you, nor you lose the benefit. With such rational thoughts, you will hurt many people around you.
If you live with a too warm heart, you feel you always need to treat well, trust and think about others. Gradually, people around you will assume that your kindness is obvious. And they don’t need to be repaid. As a result, you will be hurt.
People tend to criticize those who live too rationally, at the same time despise and take advantage of the weak. Therefore, a kind heart and altruism are two things that cannot be arbitrarily displayed for everyone.
The hurt should be limited, so you create your own value. The honesty hidden behind a cold mind is a way for you to protect yourself. If you don’t want to be the most hurtful person, be kind to yourself.
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1) When you are older you will understand how precious little things, seemingly of no value in themselves, can be loved and prized above all price when they convey the love and thoughtfulness of a good heart – Edwin Booth
2) I love a man with a great sense of humor and who is intelligent – a man who has a great smile. He has to make me laugh. I like a man who is very ambitious and driven and who has a good heart and makes me feel safe. I like a man who is very strong and independent and confident – that is very sexy – but at the same time, he’s very kind to people – Nicole Scherzinger
3) It is very important to generate a good attitude, a good heart, as much as possible. From this, happiness in both the short term and the long term for both yourself and others will come – Dalai Lama