When Men Are In A Relationship, They Want Someone Who Can Do These 4 Things All With Heart
1. Someone who does little things for him
If you’re currently in a relationship, you probably really appreciate your guy doing the little things for you such as buying your favorite food, just flowers or even cleaning the apartment as a surprise, …
All these things are not crazy romantic but that’s what’s cool about it and makes them so valuable and means so much.
The same goes for our male companions! They really need to be with someone who does little things for them.
Besides, they might not even know that this is the kind of person they should be looking for but once they have a caring girlfriend like this, they will totally understand.
Being attentive and kind are two of the best qualities to look for in a partner!
2. Someone who truly accepts who they are and doesn’t try to change it
Almost all guys hate girls who want them to be different people once they go out together.
Either way, you have to realize that even if you want to, you can’t really change anyone but yourself.
He is who he is just as you are who you are.
The sooner you accept this, the sooner and happier you both will be in your relationship.
Men want to be with someone who understands them and loves them exactly as they are.
And that’s what you also expect from a man towards you, isn’t it?
3. Someone who respects him
Respect and love go hand in hand, whether for us women or for men.
If you don’t respect him then, are you sure you really love him? Not respecting him will make him feel unloved, anxious and frustrated, among other things.
Another part of respect is seeing him as your equal.
This means not treating him like a child. Even if yes, I know, it is sometimes difficult as certain attitudes seem childish.
But try as much as possible not to treat him like a little boy and compare him to other guys, who are stronger, smarter, better looking, richer, etc.
Also be aware of how you relate to the opposite gender.
Of course, you have every right to have other friends of the opposite gender! But it’s generally considered disrespectful to flirt with other people, whether your man is there to see it or not.
The rule of thumb is to consider how you would like to be treated and apply that to how you treat the man in your life.
And vice versa ! Having deep mutual respect for each other is really the basis for living a healthy relationship.
4. Someone who cheers him on and lifts him up
Even the most confident-looking man in the world could use some reassurance from time to time. Whether it’s about themselves, their careers, their “performances” in bed, or how they are as partners, men love to be praised and admired.
Never hesitate to congratulate your man when he does a good job, whether at work or at home. Encourage its positive sides and let him know he’s special.
If he’s the family breadwinner in your relationship, tell him you appreciate his hard work and what he does for your home. And if he’s not, thank him for the other contributions he’s made to the life you share together as a couple.
All your encouragement will make him a better person.
Moreover, men also appreciate being inspired.
If you ever hear him say to someone one day that “Yes, it’s true, she makes me a better man”, don’t let him go!
The happiest couples are those who inspire and motivate each other.
If you’ve met the person you were meant to be with, you know that person has changed you and changed your life.
You feel like the best version of you and it’s hard to imagine being your old self.
