The Love Of Your Life Will Only Come After The Mistake Of Your Life
Maybe our mistakes are shaping our lives.
Perhaps we must begin by dispelling broken hearts in order to enlighten us again. Maybe we have to be broken to become complete.
And I understand that this painful love is the worst love and the worst kind of separation. It is a relationship for which we have given everything so that someone who does not want to meet us halfway.
That’s why we split into millions of tiny pieces and wonder why we could not see the alarms from the start. Because they are there, the red flags are always there for those who want to see them.
But we all make mistakes. Sometimes we choose people who are wrong for us and desperately try to correct them, probably because our souls are still not ready for the real and we still have to learn a lesson.
Because we draw the most valuable lessons from the most painful experiences.
And maybe there is no mistake, especially if this mistake taught us something essential about us: who we are, who we love, what hurts us. And although we did not want this love to end, maybe everything was meant for it.
Perhaps we should break our hearts to prepare ourselves for the love of our lives.
And when I speak of an error, I think of a relationship that was toxic to us, a relationship that we should leave long before it inevitably degenerates and breaks our hearts.
But for some reason, we could not let go. And not because this person was good for us, but because everything should be done so that we can learn what true love really is.
No matter how many times we try to make things work again, they never do it. Because it should not be.
This relationship should end. Their goal was to shake us up, to make us so desperate and out of control that we
Healing is not a nocturnal process. It takes a lot of time, energy and willpower. It’s a constant decision to get rid of all the toxicity that surrounds us and to become stronger so that disappointments do not affect us.
It’s the power to know that you can love someone, but you can still leave your head up because we know we deserve better. And the love of our lives is upon us and we expect to be healed and in good health.
And when we meet our true love, there will be no questions, no drama, no sleepless nights. It will be a love that feels calm and caring. A love that shows us why all our previous relationships have failed.
Because all that we lived, all bad relationship or experience, was only the path of the person who was destined for us.
And that will bring us to greatness. Because that’s what true love does to people. This makes them real and brings the best to the surface.