Take note of These Words, The Inability to Say Them Have Broken up Many Homes
Here are some of the things that should not happen at a Wedding
1. Couples keeping malice with each other:
yes, I know you think how is it possible, but yes, some couples are really keeping malice with each other. Many pretend to love each other, deceiving the world. But in fact, when we approach them, they don’t talk to each other at home.
2. Couples leave a separate life at home:
Some couples no longer do things for which they are mentally capable of being together. Instead, they do it in their own different ways. Take for example couples who have different rooms in the same house. They claim that theirs is no problem, saying that all they want is privacy.
3. Couples never spending time together again:
when couples no longer have time for each other. Feelings gradually begin to fade.
4. Allowing a third person into your marriage:
Most couples allow a third person into their homes, thinking they are their true friends, unaware that they are merely home wreckers.
5. Couples insulting each other:
Some couples insult each other when they have a small argument. Some don’t even mind insulting each other in the presence of their children, and this is not a good thing because their children are watching and learning.
6. Couples arguing:
some couples even get into physical combat.
Research as being done and it was found that their are some simple and powerful words that could be said that could help prevent all these acts listed above from happening.
Here are the words and why they are so powerful
1. Please:
Many people don’t want to say “please” while asking for permission. They always believe it is their right. In marriages. Most people feel why they should beg their husband or wife. But it is not a crime to do so in marriage. It even makes the marriage more romantic. When you say please, you are showing your husband or wife that you respect him or her.
2. Thank you
Even though we all know that we can never satisfy human beings. It is still good that you appreciate each other in your marriage for anything done for each other, it would make your husband or wife want to do more.
3. I’m sorry
when someone like him or her has done something wrong and he or she doesn’t say I’m sorry. It would be really hard for the offended person to forgive the person. But when the word is spoken the anger in the offended person gradually begins to fade. Take for example children who are fighting, when they are separated and apologize to each other, they beg to play again as if nothing happened. This can also be applicable in marriage. The inability to apologize for something wrong has led to many broken homes today.
Please note that these words may only be five and six letter words, but I tell you that their power is in them.
They put marriages in prayer as well. Without God’s help, other things could destroy your perfect marriage. I pray that nothing will destroy your home in Jesus’ name.
Source:ng.opera.news
