Should a husband defend his wife against insults from his family?
Men are confident that he is willing to protect his wife from anyone, if she is right. So if the wife is wrong and sit down under a stream of abuse from relatives in the family , will he do nothing?
Everything in life must be learned, even how to be a husband and to be a wife. Husband and wife should take care, share and sympathize with each other. Because we can’t be right in all cases, we all make mistakes, so learn to be tolerant.
Your wife will probably make mistakes, which can make your loved ones unhappy. She can even be hated even if she does nothing wrong. But learn to be a husband, learn to counsel and share with your wife.
If the wrong person is your wife, don’t push the conflict to the peak by refusing to defend her. The impatience will have more serious consequences, and hurt everyone.
As a husband and a son, use your love and responsibility to ease the atmosphere. Then, look for opportunities to make she understand why she is wrong, and find a solution together. A good husband knows how to protect his wife from insults of the family, and knows how to bring them closer as well. She is with you on a very long way in life, so she deserve it.”