S-x is great, especially when you are having it with someone who you love and loves you back and then you both explore together. The big issue having s-x with your ex, someone you swore you had gotten over. There is no justification whatsoever for this to happen no matter how you want to analyse it and here’s why:
1. You broke up with your ex for a reason
Before sleeping with your ex, you need to remember you broke up with your ex for a reason. This won’t fix things but would only end up complicating things between you and your ex.
2. It will hold you back
As much as you try and convince yourself you can have casual s-x with an ex and still meet someone else, the more your ex is in your life, the harder it will be to move on. You will just become a sex partner to someone who probably will never want you.
3. It complicates things
It is like a disaster waiting to happen. When you sleep with your ex, this sometimes makes one of the two to still expect exclusivity and this only complicate things.
4. This brings back hurtful memories
The relationship ended, you cried over it and thought you had gotten over it and then, why end up again in bed with your ex? You have both moved on, there is no need to rekindle old flames and sleeping together, it would only cause more hurt.
5. SLEEPING WITH YOUR EX WON’T BRING BACK YOUR EX
SLEEPING WITH YOUR EX won’t bring back your ex no matter how good the s-x was. So why don’t you move on and share that experience with someone who really wants to be with you.
