In the era of socialites, women are using all tricks to get the attention of men. A man who gets attracted to you because of your looks and humongous body is not likely to stay with your forever. There is more you need to do to attract a man. Here are 5 reasons you shouldn’t use your body to woo a man, records Elcrema.com
1. He won’t see your real value
When a man gets attracted to a lady because of the flesh he has seen, he would lose sight of other values that the lady has; all he saw was some flesh and that’s all that he would value. Every lady has something valuable within her not just her body, but when her body becomes the spotlight, it would take the shine off other values.
2. He will only make you his side chick
You struggle to win his heart might end up in disappointment. The man might end up making you only his side chick. The theatrics might win his attention but not his heart.
3. He will not trust you
The man will feel you are also doing the same with other men. Nothing prevents a man from thinking that you are wooing other men with the same trick. Most men are not generous when it comes to trust. He will not trust that you truly love him if you use your body to get his attention.
4. It might not last
When you get a man just through your body, the relationship might just not last; your body might get that man but keeping him is the harder ordeal, you would need more than just a show of flesh to keep that man. When he gets tired or get used to your body, what next?
5. You are devaluing yourself
A woman who uses her body shows that she has nothing else to offer a man. The man will start dating you knowing very well that there is less you have to offer in life. No man wants a woman who is a burden in his life.
Source: hivisasa.com
