It can be an awful feeling to think that someone you thought was interested in you is no longer interested. You might still love him, but how can you tell he’s over you for good and it’s time to move on? What are the signs he is no longer interested in you?
Because, really, it could be sometimes hard to tell if a guy is no longer interested in you if he’s in a relationship with you and hasn’t broken up with you outright. But the signs are always there; if you’re observant enough and not blinded by your emotions.
1. He’ll start forgetting important dates.
If a man is no longer interested in you, he will start forgetting about the important dates.
Important dates like birth anniversary, your relationship anniversary, he will no longer put much thought to them.
Both of you might plan to go out to spend some time with each other but, within hours, he will forget and might even book other appointments for the same time you had earlier agreed on.
2. Your presence will become irritating to him.
Your presence will suddenly become irritating to him. He will always come up with one excuse or the other. He will always find a way to be far from you.
A man who is in love with you, will always cherish the time he spends with you.
When he is no longer interested, nothing you do will interest him.
3. He always look for excuses to avoid you.
Whenever he starts giving excuses, know that something is wrong.
It’s not that giving excuses is wrong but, when it becomes too often than usual, then there’s a need to be bothered.
When he starts giving excuses for things he ordinarily would do, then there’s need to ask questions.
4. He’ll start missing your calls frequently.
One unavoidable signs he will show is missing of calls.
He will start missing your calls more often than usual.
When you ask what is wrong, there is every tendency that he will have nothing much to say.
When you notice all of these signs, there’s need to be worried.
There is need to ask questions. Don’t just keep quiet about it.
5. He doesn’t listen to you
If a guy doesn’t want to change despite your many complaints and seeing you upset, you’re not his priority.
When you love someone, you care about their feelings by listening to them, especially their complaints about you; because you don’t want to lose them.
If he doesn’t value your opinions let alone show a willingness to change, it’s because he doesn’t care enough to change, and he’s not afraid to lose you.
6. He stops talking about the future
It’s just another way a man avoids making a real commitment.
Men who don’t want to talk about the future don’t want to commit to that future.
He has his ideas of where his life is headed and he’s not convinced that you’re headed there with him.
7. His tone of voice changes towards you
He speaks or replies angrily. He may even speak unkindly towards you, or say unfriendly things to you.
When his feelings change, his tone of voice becomes less affectionate, and starts to sound like he’s angry or irritated tone, it’s a sign he’s losing interest in you.
If his heart is full of love for you, his mouth will speak it to you.
8. Reduced attention
See whether he pays attention.
When guys are interested in someone, they will make an effort to remember important things about that person like their interests, their schedule, birthdays, or facts about them.
Guys will stop paying attention and remembering these things when they aren’t interested anymore.
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