If You Want To Keep Him Around You, STOP Doing These 7 Things (#6 Is Just So Bad)
1. Finding Faults With His Flaws
Dear women, we cannot be perfect every day. No matter how we try, we can’t help messing up on some days. We really wish to be loving and sensitive, and caring every day, but sometimes we can’t help being human. Sometimes we forget to take out the trash, and other times we leave our sweaty pants on the bedroom floor after jogging.
That doesn’t mean we are deliberately sitting back, not trying to be a better version of ourselves. No, it only means that we are still humans and not angels. You can always correct us lovingly, but we hate it when you keep harping about our flaws.
2. Being His Mother and Scolding Him
Sometimes we make mistakes. We could make decisions that prove to be the wrong decision on the long run. At those times, we feel vulnerable. The last thing we need is to be scolded again and made to feel worse. One sentence we wish you will never use while talking to us at any time is; “I told you so.”
3. Welcoming Him Home Without a Smile
To most of us, life is like a вαттℓєfιєℓ∂. We go out with our ᴀʀsᴇɴᴀʟ ᴏғ ᴡᴀʀ, expecting to fight the best way we could and win. We know we are not just fighting for ourselves. Knowing that we are bearing the banner of our whole family makes us stick to our gυиѕ and stand strong when the вαттℓєѕ seem to be the toughest.
However, we expect our homes to be our haven. We expect home to be our place of retreat and comfort where we can release our stress. So imagine how disappointed we get when we return and are not greeted with a smile.
4. Not Trusting Him
Remember the point about us being humans and not angels? Let’s say we did something that made you lose your trust; please try and build it up. We hate having that feeling that our partner doesn’t trust us.
5. Disrespecting Him
For most men, disrespect is the worst offense. Most of us cannot stand a partner who belittles us or speaks to us with disdain. Doing this will make us want to avoid you.
6. Using ѕєχ and Food as a Manipulative Tool
Most of us don’t joke with food and ѕєχ. We know that you know that, and we don’t expect you to use it against us. We hate it so much when you use these things as grounds to get us to do what we initially didn’t want to do.
We could still do what you wanted at the time being, but we are going to think about it later, and it will definitely make us feel bad.
7. Comparing Him Unfavorably With Other Men, Especially Your Ex
You know how you feel when you get compared to other women? We usually feel worse. If you are going to make any comparison at all, make it in such a way that we are the better people.
For instance, we really wish you will stop telling us what your best friend’s husband just did or bought for her. We are competitive in nature, and hearing those things usually make us feel we are not man enough for you unless we do better.
The worst of these kinds of comparisons is the ones that have to do with ѕєχ. Telling us that your ex did it better than we do is one of the worst things you can ever do to us.