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If you keep tolerating these things in your relationship, then the person hurt will be always you

If you keep tolerating these things in your relationship, then the person hurt will be always you

1. Disrespect

Relationships work when both partners respect each other’s opinions, beliefs and boundaries. Someone who doesn’t respect you is likely to say and do things that demean you and hurt your feelings. If you experience this in your relationship, it might be time to walk away.

2. Controlling behaviour

Your partner will try to control your behaviour and actions according to what they feel is right for you. They will try to manipulate you according to their preferences and wishes. They might also want to keep continuous tabs on you about where and who you are with at all times.

3. νισℓєи¢є

There are rough patches in every relationship, it is completely normal to get upset or angry for a while, but that never gives you the right to hurt your partner. Some people use physical νισℓєи¢є as a usual reaction to anger, but it should never be accepted.

4. Forced physical intimacy

The need for physical intimacy in a relationship is normal, but it is not acceptable to force your partner into doing something they are not comfortable with. Both partners are equal and their desires should be respected.

5. Lying and chєαtíng

Honesty and trust are very important for a healthy relationship. A chєαtíng and lying partner does not care about the relationship at all, and if it happens once it will happen again.

6. Ignoring

Spending every minute of the day with your partner might make the relationship boring, but ignoring is not healthy at all too. If your partner often ignores your texts, calls or messages it means they don’t appreciate you enough.

7. Not respecting you and your family

If your partner disrespects your friends or family members, they are also disrespecting you. You must never allow them to do so.

8. Public нυмιℓιαтισи

Even though having disagreements and arguments is normal in a relationship, you should never discuss such things in public. Also, нυмιℓιαтιng your partner around others is a big NO.

9. Jealousy

This is a very unhealthy trait, and it also includes being jealous of your work or achievements as well as your possessions. This is a sign of a superficial relationship, so talk with your partner about their behavior and if they are not willing to stop behaving that way, it is time to move on.