If These 7 Traits Describe Your Man, He’s Not Actually In Love With You
1. Overt suspicion
If your man feels the need to read your e-mails, monitor your texts, or track your phone? There is no trust or respect in your relationship.
2. Undermining behaviours
Does he sabotage your diet, your friendships, and your dreams? This is both insecure and controlling and should not be tolerated.
3. . He’s ignoring you
If he’s ignoring your texts and taking ages to respond, then you might not be at the forefront of his mind.
A man that truly loves you will want to make time for you and see you whenever he can.
4. Unwillingness to compromise
Here is the real “work” of relationships and the heart of mutual respect: compromise.
It is NOT about not standing up for yourself, it is NOT about not maintaining healthy boundaries; it is about having a clear headset that “what is good for the goose” is in fact “good for the gander”. Love understands that compromise actually opens up your options and gives you greater freedom to experience life and each other more completely.
5. Body and/or s3xual shaming
A man who loves you truly will love all belonging to you. So he will never make you feel body and/or s3xual shaming
6. He only cares about s3x
If he’s meeting up with you only to have s3x with you, then he might just be using you for fun.
If he loves you and wants to have a relationship with you, then s3x will only be one facet of the relationship.
7. He doesn’t listen to you
A man that loves you will respect your opinions and listen to what you have to say.
But if he’s not taking your advice on board and ignoring your opinions, then it shows a lack of respect. And without respect, love is near impossible.
