I never judge people on their first appearance, because sometimes people who seem sweet can be the biggest snakes and the people who look arrogant and rude can be the nicest people ever when you actually get to know them.
When meeting someone, we want to know what kind of person they are, whether it is a good person or the right person for you to stay in touch.
How people appear on the outside is a clue to assess who they are. But for me, that’s an easy way to deceive my instinct.
There are people who always appear to be sweet and cute, but their nature is as vicious as a poisonous snake. You cannot recognize who they are if you just have normal interaction with them.
Or there are also those who look arrogant, rude, obnoxious, but actually they are very kind and warm-hearted. They may be even more kind than all the people you know.
So I never judge people by the way they perform in the first few meetings. I will take the time to understand them thoroughly, to make sure that I understand who they are.