“I’m a man in my mid-thirties and I’ve been married for five years. My wife and I didn’t know each other for very long before we go wedded.
We got together on a scuba diving holiday. We were both single and excited to be abroad and just kind of drifted into sleeping together, I guess.
When we got home, she moved into my place, I popped the question a couple of months later and we got married.
The thing is, for me, the spark we had when we met on holiday didn’t last long. I found myself regretting rushing into getting married and I started fantasising about other women.
I realise that makes me sound horrible, but I am really not a bad person.
For a few months now, I’ve been $leeping with a colleague which, again, I know sounds bad. The chemistry between us is off the charts, but it’s more than that – it feels as if we’re soulmates and like we’ve known each other for ever.
She’s not putting any pressure on me, but I know I have to do something about my marriage.
I feel bad for my wife, who has no clue about any of this but she deserves better than me and she’s a good, caring person.
Please advise. I’m really suffering with the stress of it all.”
Source: mirror.co.uk
