Jealousy plays a very important part in romance. It can induce desire and attraction. It can also make a guy want you more.
If a guy likes you and sees you flirting with another guy, his jealously will make him desire you more and try harder to please you. But then, there is a thin line between making him love you more and making him hate you for the way you treat him.
There are many ways to make a guy jealous. Some are cute, but most of them are just wicked.
Depending on your relationship status with the guy, here are a few things you can do to make him jealous and take notice of you.
1. Let him know that you don’t actually NEED him
Guys like being depended on. But behave like you don’t need him around because you have a lot of guy friends who can help you anyway. Ask your boyfriend for his help. But if he can’t help you, get another cute guy to help you and tell your boyfriend about how much fun you had with the other guy.
2. Looking good
There shouldn’t be any specific occasion to look beautiful or to take care of yourself. Take time to get all dressed up when you are going out. If you are not much of a makeup person, then try putting on some makeup for a change. Don’t just wear anything that you lay your hand on instead select the dress that will define your curves better. Put in some effort to change your hairstyle as well. All these changes won’t go unnoticed. Your husband will definitely notice the change and will ask you questions about the change.
Don’t give out any details, just smile mysteriously. It is enough to make him jealous and he will start giving more attention to you in order to figure out what’s going on in your life. Isn’t it super cute? After being married for so long, if you see that your husband is getting possessive about you won’t you feel good about it? You know that you are doing it for your husband, but why let the cat out of the hat so early. Enjoy all the attention that he is showering on you and then when you feel that things are taking a turn, blurt out the truth.
3. Ignore his texts and calls
Ignoring him might draw his attention. Avoid texting or calling him. If you receive text messages from him, do not reply immediately. Instead, you can text him every once in a while. Similarly, ignore his calls a few times before answering. Let him know that you have your own life, and you actually enjoy spending time with other people. You can be active on social media. He will start chasing you and give you his undivided attention. Do not ignore him for long, though.
4. Make his guy friends appreciate you
When you are around your guy’s friend circle, then try to do something that will make his friends go gaga over you. When his friends will start appreciating or complimenting you, he will start feeling jealous or possessive about you. Don’t do anything overtly flirty, but just be your best self in front of his friends and the rest will be taken care of by his friends. Act innocent, as if you haven’t done anything intentionally, and you will not be in any kind of trouble with your guy.
5. Compliment other guys
If your guy doesn’t treat you well, compliment any guy friend for the smallest of gestures and talk about how sweet he is with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend will want the same attention too.
6. Be active on social media
Start posting pictures of you and your friends doing crazy and interesting stuff. Show your man how popular you are amongst your friends. Show that life can be exciting even without him. The idea is to make him miss your attention and see that you are giving it to others. Stay active on social media to let your partner know where you are, but sometimes withhold the details. Be ready for lots of love and attention when you get back.
7. Tell him you are receiving attention from other men
If someone at work is flirting with you or you are getting attention from someone you met online, make sure you mention it to your partner. This will make him jealous and ignite that protective instinct inside him.
8. Withhold s3x
Stop giving in to his demands. Say you are tired or just not interested. This will trigger his jealousy and he won’t understand why you are refusing s3x. He will try harder by showering you with love and attention to get you to come closer to him.
9. Talk about your ex to make him jealous
People can become complacent without a little competition. This is especially true for long-term relationships. Your guy believes that you cannot think beyond him, and so he has stopped taking out time for you. Give him a reality check. Start talking about your ex and how he used to treat you. Remember not to overdo the act. Otherwise, it might backfire you and ruin your relationship once and for all. Do it in the right way and you will surely make your guy feel jealous!
10. Ask your friend to speak for you
If you want to make your man feel jealous, ask your best friend to talk to your partner about how popular you are among your circle. You need to plan this carefully so that it doesn’t appear contrived or unnatural. Tell your friend to ease into the conversation and watch your partner’s reaction.
References: lovepanky.com, momjunction.com,
