The tips are not for those whose relationship is in danger or sour. These are for all those who want to have a good relationship with their life partners.
1. Be a good listener
If your husband comes home after a tiring day at work and you notice he is stressed, sit him down and ask him to share his day with you. Do not start your own tensions and complaints because that will only make him feel worse. Be a good listener and help him lighten up.
2. Do not discuss Past
Do not spend your precious moments discussing what happened in the past or restarting all the fights and complaints. Just behave like fresh lovers. Do not get trapped in lost thoughts. The time that we spend together helps us heal our body and energize it too. Remember, practice makes a man perfect. You practice to live in present and make it as beautiful as possible.
3. Spend good time with your husband
You need to ensure that you spend quality time with your husband. No matter how busy you are and what happens, you both should take some time out for yourselves. Talk to each other, go out on dates and just do all the couple things.
4. Communicate your feelings in a loving, constructive way
If you do not wish to hurt your partner, refrain from speaking your feelings out of hurt or anger. I assure you that you are not doing your partner a favour, or yourself. Instead, the grudges you nurse or resentment you harbour is the only poison that will kill your relationship over time. Find a way to communicate openly and amicably.
5. Fight fair
Do not get caught up in the bickering game and leave it without any concrete solutions. The solution is to resolve a conflict in a positive, constructive manner. Never threaten the relationship. Don’t call each other names or belittle each other. Resolve issues before going to sleep, or agree to disagree.
6. Never raise your voice when angry
Fights and quarrels are pretty normal in every relationship. However never yell at your husband or raise your voice. This might hurt his male ego and things can get worse before you realize. If you have a problem, bring it to his notice in a subtle yet stern way.
7. Act romantic and you will feel romantic
Do not wait for the right “mood” to be romantic. Set the scene, be receptive to touch, and you will be surprised at how your desire will arise naturally. Part of being romantic has to do with understanding the way you like to be romanced, while the other part is just being open to possibilities.
