Is he truly busy or just not interested in me anymore? This is the modern woman’s conundrum, especially since most guys won’t just come out and tell you what’s on their minds. “Busy” has become synonymous with utter disinterest, but is it always like this? Here’s how to tell that the guy you’re in love really does have a packed agenda or just losing interest in you. After all, need to know so you don’t waste your time.
He’s Legit Too Busy
Sometimes, it actually can be a matter of being super busy. It happens, most frequently with people who are focusing in on their careers but still want some love. These signs below suggest that he is into you, but just is short on time…
– He still talks to you every day. If a man is interested, he’ll find time to just say hello or give you an update. Heck, even a guy as busy as Kanye West finds time for his Kim, doesn’t he? Your crush isn’t as busy as Kanye, so he really has no excuse.
– You’ve been invited to come along with him or meet up at the places he has to be. This is a big one. If he’s very busy, he might not have much time to schedule around you so he’ll ask you to compromise. That’s okay! Sometimes all a guy can do is ask you to come with him while he’s on the job.
– When you’re feeling alone, he does what he can to schedule some one-on-one time with you. We’re guessing that this is how pop stars and major media moguls have a love life. Either way, the answer is clear. A man who is into you will make time for you, period.
– The job he has is crazy important. If he’s pursuing a Ph.D, working on a crazy music career that’s actually taking off, or stuck on Wall Street, chances are he might legitimately be busy.
He’s Busy Moving On
In most cases, people use the term “busy” as a cop-out for being able to walk away from a girl that they lost interest in. After all, no one wants to be that guy who sits a girl down and says, “So I am not interested in you because XYZ…”
So, how can you figure out if he’s blowing you off? It’s simple. These signs below are pretty clear indicators of what’s going on:
– He Is Not Romantic With You Anymore
– He Is Ignoring Your Texts And Calls
– You Rarely Touch Each Other
– He Is Not Making Any Effort With Your Friends And Family
– You Are Not A Priority For Him
– He Is Constantly Making Excuses
– He Is Being Rude To You
– He Fails To Notice Anything About You
– You Catch Him Flirting With Others
– He Is Nagging More Frequently
