The things that every husband hates about his wife adequately describe how much he loves and cares for his wife. They may not good at expressing the love and care for you. But, here are some surprising things that your husband secretly hates
1. HE HATES WATCHING YOU IN PAIN
Being married means your feelings aren’t just yours anymore. Every time you are hurt, it hurts him and he hates it because he feels helpless. When you are in pain, don’t shut him out, but instead communicate and express yourself. If he could, he would take it all away, so at least give him that chance.
2. HE HATES IT WHEN YOU TRY HIDING YOUR PAIN
He hates when you are crying alone without letting him to help you. He knows when you are silently sobbing in bathroom at night and you think he is asleep, but he is not. He wants to help you to come up with your troubles, but he doesn’t know how if you are not giving him a chance. So, give him a chance and try together and he will comfort you.
3. HE HATES NOT HAVING YOU AROUND
He marries you because he wants to spend all the time with you. So, when you are away from him he feels crazy as he has lost his heart. He feels bad when either of you are away from the house, but he might not show you. Always you should know that he hates staying away from you.
4. HE HATES WHEN YOU DOUBT YOUR ABILITIES
You married your husband knowing he wasn’t perfect but because you saw the best in him. He married you not just for who you are, but for who you could be as well. When your insecurities pull you down, communicate with him. His confidence in you might ultimately make the difference.
5. HE HATES IT WHEN PEOPLE DISRESPECT YOU
Husbands are naturally protective. This is why it makes their blood boil to see someone take advantage of you or not treat you right. Sometimes this might even seem like a bigger deal to him than it is to you. Just know that he reacts this way because he loves you and can’t understand why somebody would disrespect the most important person in his life.
6. HE HATES IT WHEN YOU GIVE UP
Whether is a cupcake competition, a bidding on sale, a job interview or promotion….husbands don’t want a housewife who is obedient and gives up on things that matter in her life. Modern husbands definitely want strong women who fight their battles
7. HE HATES BEING THE REASON FOR YOUR SADNESS
We most often end up hurting those we love. Very often, ‘why did he hurt me’ isn’t an easy question to answer. But hurting the people you love is something you always regret. Sometimes he hurts you unintentionally, sometimes he hurts you in the heat of the moment, but when he is sorry, he truly is. His heart is connected to yours, and hurting you hurts him too.
8. HE HATES WHEN YOU AREN’T HAPPY
The entire list above can be summed up with the most important thing that he hates about you; seeing you unhappy. You have promised to be with him for a life time. So, don’t shut him out even though sometimes he messed up. He loves you and always he want you to be the happiest person in the world.