ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛɪɴɢ happens not just in premarital relationships, but also in marriage. While it is not unique to any sex, most people tend to agree that men are bigger ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛs or ɪɴғɪᴅᴇʟs than women. This has not exactly been proven, but in my opinion it may not be far from the truth. Lol. Perhaps this is because more men have been caught in the act than women; but that’s by the way.
The real question is why do married men ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛ? Why would a man who supposedly has the woman of his dreams decide to have an ᴀғғᴀɪʀ outside his marriage? I thought about it for a bit, and came up with the following possible answers…
1. INABILITY TO CONTROL LUSTFULNESS
Most men ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛ not because there’s a woman out there who has made it a mission to seduce them and make them break their marital vows. Men do it is simply because they cannot control their ᴅᴇsɪʀᴇs towards other women.
ʟᴜsᴛғᴜʟɴᴇss is something that a lot of men face because of the human nature, but respectable and honourable men never cave into the temptation; they fight and avoid it because they know it is wrong. Only weak men fall for it, and they are the ones who ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛ on their wives.
2. SOME WOMEN LOSE THEIR WAY AFTER MARRIAGE
For most men, the temptation outside is not really the problem; it is that their wives are no longer who they were before the marriage. Some women stop looking attractive for their husband, some choose to give the children more attention than their husband, some become nags, and some stop being romantic after marriage. These things are what drive most men into having an ᴀғғᴀɪʀ outside marriage.
3. SOME LADIES RUN AFTER MARRIED MEN
Many ladies out there find married men attractive. They’d desperately sᴇᴅᴜᴄᴇ anyone they can find within their reach, until he indulges their ᴅᴇsɪʀᴇs. A lot of men have fallen prey to these sorts of women.
4. BAD COMPANY
Many people said that married people should be wary of the sort of friends they keep. A married man who keeps party monsters and womanizers as friends may one day find himself doing the same things they do. This is because they’ll most likely pressure him into doing it.
Above is the main reasons why I think married men ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛ. Remember, this is not in any way an attempt to justify ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛɪɴɢ in any manner, it is wrong, and no man of class who has some respect for both himself and his wife would ever ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛ on his own wife.
