A wife who does these 3 things with her husband is worse than chᴇᴀting. The divorce is just sooner or later
1. Always causes trouble and quarrel over small things
A couple is two completely different individuals, so they will have two different personalities, interests, habits, etc. If the couple do not get along, do not tolerate, sympathize and understand each other, marriage life will be very tiring and difficult.
Just think, if a woman is always arguing with her husband just because of small things, resolutely forcing him to do what she wants, how pressured and uncomfortable he will be. In the long run, he will hate this marriage, even thinking that the family is the prison and his wife is the warden and they will always want to escape from the prison.
Marriage life always has a lot of things to worry about such as work, finances, taking care of children, etc. Those things are not simple, so it’s very important for the couples to get along with each other.
In addition, the partners need to listen to and respect each other’s opinions, so that the marriage can be full of happiness.
2. Only mention money
When you two are dating, there are many things to talk about from work to small everyday things. However, after getting married, both of you may have fewer common things to talk about because you have been together for a long time and understood each other too well.
Even many couples will have nothing to talk about other than money issues like how much money you earn this month, why you spend so much, you have to try to make more money, etc. But if you keep talking about money, your marriage life gradually becomes a nightmare no matter how warm and happy it is.
At this time, the man will feel extremely pressured financially, even he will think that he is useless because they can’t take care of his wife and children. A wife who constantly puts money pressure on her husband is not really wise at all.
That’s because, a good man will always try his best and take the initiative in the financial matter so that his wife does not need to worry. On the contrary, if he does not have the will to advance, he won’t care no matter how much you complain.
3. Wife often scolds, nags about things that make her husband depressed
In this life no one is perfect, not even you, do you dare to assert yourself as a perfect person who has never made a mistake? Well. your husband is the same.
If a wife keeps finding out about her husband’s mistakes, criticizing her husband, especially when he fails in business or fails to complete something, etc., it’s really bad. Things will get worse if the wife compares her husband to another man.
This not only hurts her husband’s self-esteem but also makes him discouraged and didn’t want to try anymore. Or, the husband may have an affair, find another person who can sweetly talk to them, encourage and comfort them. Is this what you want?
