A Man Does These Things For You Only When He Truly Values You And Would Never Want To Lose You
1. He is careful about your feelings
Your feelings matter to him, which shows that you matter to him. A man who truly values you is not brash in handling your feelings. In fact, he handles them like you’d hold a baby – with care. There’s no way he will get back at you, even when he is upset. As he realises what things hurt you, he will do his best to not do those things.
2. He puts effort in sorting things out
If there is anything at all that’s bothering you, a man who doesn’t want to lose you won’t just abandon the issue at that. He will be there and hear you vent because he understands you need to let it all out. And he will be there to discuss things till all the creases are ironed out. He will make you feel heard and your feelings will feel validated.
3. Your fights don’t last more than a day
The fight may not be cute but the post-fight making up process definitely is. There’s no way you can go without talking to each other for days. After the anger has subsided, it doesn’t matter who is right, who is wrong. It doesn’t matter what you were fighting about. You guys will be talking, initially a bit coldly but before you know it – the baby talk is back!
4. You don’t feel unheard or unloved
He gives you as much love as you feel the need to receive…assuming that it’s a realistic amount. What you believe in, matters to him because you’re a woman he deeply cares about and also respects. If you ask for attention, he doesn’t dismiss you as needy, he gives it to you, willingly and happily.
5. He plans ahead with you
He is thinking about travel destinations you could explore next summer, or how his friend’s wedding six months down the line would be so much fun. He doesn’t want to even think about not having you in his life. He’s really a keeper!