6 Pretty Obvious Signs He’s Flirting With You And Not Just Being Nice
1. Flirty touch.
This is the first sign that he is flirting with you. Guys can’t help it. We need to reach out and touch a woman when we feel that attraction for her.
When a man sees a woman he really likes, he just won’t be able to resist. It’s one of the things we compulsively do. It’s one of the things that we just have on the back of our minds that we need to do.
In my opinion, that’s because a lot of guys, unfortunately, don’t get physical affection. Guys don’t get the same kind of hugs, kisses, caresses, and touches that many women do.
2. His smile lingers.
If he’s smiling at you and looking for more reasons to smile at you, that is a very good sign that he’s flirting with you. If he really likes it and enjoys being with you, then he will make more effort to laugh with you and share his smile with you.
3. He’s excited about finding things you have in common.
He’ll make an effort to emphasize the things you have in common – whether it’s interests, music, movies, or whatever.
If a guy really likes you, he will be on the lookout for similarities because it’s an easy way for him to connect with you.
4. He makes jokes and innuendos.
You – as a woman – have to read between the lines to understand that. He’s not trying to be just a loser or a sucker or something like that.
He’s really trying to find out if the love card is on the table. He wants to find out how you feel about the idea of love.
Then you can bet that if he tries to find out, he’s probably flirting with you. He’s just trying to get a feel – not to find out if you’re going to make out with him this minute or even that night – but if it’s a possibility. For him, this is the way he works out whether or not you are physically attracted to him.
Many women back down on this issue and you have to be careful.
Instead of getting rid of it, just laugh at it and move the topic to another topic. And yes, he’ll come back to it and you’ll even want to roll your eyes, but just let it be.
Most guys do, and some are just clueless. A lot of guys with really good hearts do this and they just don’t realize how annoying it can be for you.
5. He playfully teases you .
This is another sign that he’s flirting with you. If a guy is teasing you about something, the chances are he’s flirting and into you in some way because he’s looking for a way to rekindle the connection and interaction by taking them to new levels of energy.
That’s really what he does with the tease. He’s not trying to just get on your nerves and give you a hard time.
He wants to increase the excitement and interest in the conversation. But of course he’ll hide his interest in you by pretending you’re just an annoying, bitchy little sister of his.
That’s fine. You know better now.
6. You catch him staring at you.
The next sign he’s flirting is that you catch him staring at you.
If you catch him looking at you from across the room, or even while you are sitting right next to him, he’s probably having a crush. He is likely looking at you or trying to sneak peek at you to get hold of you.
Guys take on women visually.
You’ve heard so many times that men are visual. It’s not that easy just looking at your breasts and butt. It will take in your face and your appearance as a whole. It is a thirst that men get when we find a woman to whom we are attracted.
