6 Signs That Prove You Are In A Serious And Matured Relationship
1. Consideration
Maturity in a relationship involves considering your partner before doing certain things.
Love makes this easy because when you are actually in love with someone their happiness becomes your happiness.
So you wouldn’t want to do anything at the detriment of their feelings. Even in the slightest things you always consider them because you now think “We” and not “I“.
2. Ability to compromise
It’s all part of the sacrifices. When the relationship ain’t a serious one then there would be no need. However, in a serious and matured relationship, there would be compromise at one point or the other.
3. Comfortable silences
In a matured relationship, you both are able to have comfortable silences. Where you can both be together, not say a word but walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.
4. Healthy arguments
It’s about taking an issue you disagree on and finding a way to move forward in a way you both can live with. You argue less and DISCUSS more.
The ability to discuss disagreements in a constructive way.Each person listening to the concerns of the other and attempting to come to a reasonably equitable compromise.
5. Respect
In a matured relationship both partners respect each other.
Even during arguments, you can disagree with them but respect their opinion.
You would not always see from the same perspective but still, it should not escalate to the point of disrespect. Being able to correct each other nicely. You respect personal boundaries. You appreciate similarities but respect differences.
6. Support Each Other
Instead of being intimidated by each other’s success, you feel an overwhelming desire to see your partner succeed.
You go the extra mile to support their dreams and aspirations in whatever way you can and they do the same.
The support could also come in the form of prayer. You both having the urge to pray for each other shows how matured and serious you both are about the relationship.
