Dear men, if you think that your wife has fallen for another man, you should do these things as soon as possible.
1. Be Her Friend
The best way to deal with this situation is to have a calm, mature discussion with your wife and be straightforward about everything. Ask her about the man she has fallen for and try to understand why she has developed feelings for him.
2. Seek Her Perspective
Ask her if she has fallen for him, why she does that and how she wants to handle it. Be her friend and try to work through things. Remember, it’s unlikely that your wife developed these feelings all of a sudden. There was a trigger for these emotions, and you need to identify that trigger before you move forward.
3. Don’t Control Her
Don’t try to emotionally blackmail her, don’t try to control her by acting irrational and forcing her to stay away from the guy.
4. Don’t Force Her
If you try to retain your wife against her wishes or drive her to stay with you by making her feel ashamed and guilty, you might be living with your wife, but you won’t be happy (neither will she). The thing is – even if you ask her to stay away from him, she won’t stop having feelings for him. She has already fallen for him, so no matter what you do, her feelings might not change. So why would you try to force anything on her?
5. Don’t Give Up
Although it’s difficult for you to change how someone truly feels (not usually, anyway), still, you should never give up, especially with the love of your life. You need to get to the source of her feelings – why is this happening? Was it something you did? Is it something about her personality? Is somebody sabotaging the two of you? You need to get answers.
6. Change Yourself
This is one of the main reasons why married women choose the company of other men. In fact, some women just feel that the man they’re with isn’t the man they fell in love with. Now, after knowing this, you can either choose to move on by feigning indifference towards the situation and forgetting about your wife ever loving you again, or you can try and fix some of the things that your wife does not like about you and give her another chance.
