A Man Who Has Multiple Partners Outside Will Do These 8 Things Very Often
1. HE IS VERY SECRETIVE WITH HIS PHONE, COMPUTER, AND SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS.
If your man refuses to allow you access to his phone, whether deleting sensitive messages and clearing his browser history before letting you use it or asking for it back when he needs to leave the room, there’s probably something he want to hide from you.
In addition, if he’s constantly on his phone—or worse yet, has two phones—he may be trying to hide some shady activity from someone special in his life.
2. HE DOESN’T WANT TO BE INTIMATE WITH YOU.
This may indicate that he is seeing other women who are fulfilling his s2xual needs.
If he doesn’t care about having s2x with you, then it’s likely that he also doesn’t care about spending time with you or cultivating a relationship.
If your partner refuses to have s2x or makes excuses for that, then this is a sign that he may be seeing other women who are s2xually gratifying him on a higher level than you are.
3. HE HAS A HABIT OF LEAVING THE ROOM TO TAKE CALLS.
If he leaves the room when he takes a phone call, it could mean that he’s with another woman.
Or if you leave and return to find him on his cell, then this too is a sign of cheating — especially if you have no idea who’s on the other end of the line.
4. HE DOESN’T TRUST YOU WITH HIS FINANCES.
If you and your partner are not married, it’s okay to keep some aspects of your finances separate.
However, if he insists on keeping his entire financial life from you, it may show that he has something to hide.
This not only means he doesn’t want to share his spending habits with you, but it could also indicate fears about revealing assets or debts that could be connected to other partners.
Whether your relationship is serious or just getting started, opening up about money issues is a great way to show mutual trust and understanding—so don’t let him get away with pretending everything is fine if it’s not.
You deserve transparency in all parts of the relationship, including financial ones.
5. A LOT OF UNEXPLAINED CHARGES ON YOUR CREDIT CARD OR BANK STATEMENTS, OR UNEXPLAINED CHANGES IN YOUR FINANCIAL SITUATION.
If this is your case, it may be a sign that he has a secret bank account where he’s depositing his money instead of giving it to you.
Maybe he’s doing it behind your back because he doesn’t want you to see how much money he spends on another woman.
Cheating men often try to hide their spending habits from their partners.
Unexplained expenses are among the most common signs of infidelity, so if you notice something off in these regards, pay attention. Ask him about it calmly and rationally; don’t fly into an emotional rage because then all chances of getting any answers will go out the window.
6. HE TRIES TOO HARD TO EXPLAIN INCONSISTENCIES IN HIS SCHEDULE AND WHEREABOUTS.
Has your man tried to explain away any inconsistencies in his story, often with convoluted and overly-detailed explanations that are hard to follow? If yes, he may be having multiple partners outside.
The more he tries to explain away these inconsistencies, the more likely it is that they are lies.
