Why Your Ex Doesn’t Talk to You Anymore
1. It is painful
When talking to an ex, it means you are reliving old memories. And this can be painful. You always break up after some huge unpleasant and bitter series of events and you want to get over those feelings. Keeping in touch with your ex will keep bringing those hurtful memories that you are trying to get over. So if your ex is not talking to you anymore it means he is avoiding pain.
2. They may feel regret
Some words in the heat of moments can become the root cause of breakups. Once those feelings subside, people regret as they said what they didn’t mean. Since the arrow has left the bow, it cannot return. Talking to an ex will only intensify the regret feeling and to avoid that people stop talking to their exes.
3. They want to move on
To move on you need to look ahead. If you think about your ex and talk to them, it will make it impossible for you to find and meet someone else. If your ex doesn’t talk to you anymore, the most possible and understandable reason is they are ready to move on.
4. They need some space
For a long time, you can’t stop thinking about the actual cause of the break-up and how you could have done or said things differently to avoid it. In case your ex is still processing, they may take time to recover and need space to do so. They need to isolate themselves and detach themselves from everything related to you to understand the entire thing. This is an understandable reason for not talking to you after the breakup.
5. They want to keep things to themselves
When we are in a relationship, we tend to share everything with our partners. We grow a habit of sharing minor to major details of our daily lives with each other. If your ex is not talking to you after the breakup, it may mean they want to break the habit of sharing their life’s events with you. They have certain plans they want to keep to themselves and fear spilling the beans if they started talking to you.
