Why Most Men Don’t Want to Get Married Early Enough
1. SCARCITY OF ‘DECENT ENOUGH’ WOMEN
A lot of men have somehow been made to think that today there aren’t enough decent women available for marriage.
They hold this belief partially because of the awful experiences they might have had in past relationships, and stories they’ve heard from people around them.
But of course, this isn’t true, either ways. There are a lot of very decent and ‘marry- able’ women out there. The truth is most guys just don’t want to take notice of them, perhaps because they don’t tick other boxes they may have.
2. THE UNENDING SEARCH FOR ‘THE RIGHT ONE’
A lot of men don’t believe in marriage and they seem to have the problem in finding the perfect woman.
They keep jumping from woman to woman for years and decades perhaps, and they forget that marriage isn’t about finding the perfect person, but finding the one you can tolerate their imperfections.
3. THEY CAN ALWAYS GET S3X OUTSIDE MARRIAGE
Unfortunately, in some men’s opinion, the purpose of marriage is to have a steady sex partner, and since they could always get the same out of marriage, what’s the point?
That of course is pure ignorance, marriage is bigger than that, and people like that forget that s3x in marriage is different from premarital s3x because it offers more protection.
4. UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS FROM FAMILY
Some parents have set certain standards for anyone who will marry their child.
However, it doesn’t matter if such expectations are from the groom’s parents or the bride’s, these regulations sometimes affect relationships.
