Ladies, NEVER waste your time on these 3 types of men
1. Immature men
Difficult one, because immature males are typically charismatic. They are typically pretty attractive and a lot of fun.
The problem is that they like to live in the moment so much that they don’t want any pressure. They want to “see how things go”. In other words, they have no plans for the future.
A man like this is a time-waster for women. They usually appear so close, yet so far away.
If a guy seems like he may be too good and too charming to be true, he probably is, and lack of a plans for the future is a dead giveaway that a relationship with him will go nowhere.
2. Overachievers
You definitely want a hard-working guy, but sometimes, especially when a guy is young, he’s so focused on his career and on making money that having any kind of relationship other than hookups isn’t likely to be on his radar.
You can tell a man is like this if he’s always busy … except for when he calls or texts you for the occasional late night booty call. Once in a while he might take you on an actual date, but he’ll only do the bare minimum to keep you hanging on the line.
I have a lot of male clients who are busy, career-oriented men. They don’t have a lot of spare time, but they make time when they are truly interested in a woman.
The problem with overachieving men is that they just don’t get how important this is until it’s too late. And perhaps the saddest part is that when do commit and get married, they often don’t make time to see their children often enough, and that’s not good for anyone.
3. Players
You should go without saying that a man cannot be considered a player if he is not playing with anyone.
To be frank, I frequently hear women say, “I wouldn’t date a player” or “I don’t date players.”
Nevertheless, this is not always the case in the real world.
Reason for this is that players do not often promote themselves as such. They are skilled at communicating what ladies desire to hear. However, if you listen carefully, you will notice a recurring pattern in your chat with these individuals. They do not involve you in their plans, nor do they have any future plans.
Check how I used the term “listen.” I never said “search for.”
Good Listening is the most vital aspect of any relationship with a quality man. You must find a man’s speech appealing.
Problem with overachieving guys is that they fail to recognize the significance of this until it is too late. And maybe the saddest thing is that when they finally settle down and marry, they frequently neglect to spend enough time with their children, which is unhealthy for everyone.
It should go without saying that a man cannot be considered a player if he is not playing with anyone.
