To build a good relationship, communication is important. Wrong communication can scatter a serious relationship. As a lady, there are things you should never tell your man, no matter the amount of love or hate you feel for him. If you’re still interested in a relationship with him, keep your mouth shut or find something more interesting to talk about. Here are the things you should never say to him
1. You hate your ex
You may think it’s your own way of showing him that you’re a loyal person or whatever, but it might have the opposite effect. You’re giving the impression that you still have strong feelings for your ex. Let your ex be your ex. In other words, whatever happened in the past should remain there. Don’t bring it into your new relationship.
2. His friend is hot
It’s okay to admire and even give compliments to attractive people. But never voice your admiration for your boyfriend’s best friend to his face. It may mean nothing to you but you’re only going to create a growing hatred between your boyfriend and his best friend. He may even think both of you are having an affair.
3. Your closest friend is hot
Sure, you trust your boyfriend and you don’t think he will go after your hot best friend but don’t dangle her in front of him like a carrot. You may inadvertently put the wrong ideas in his head. It’s either he will request a threesome to “sample” her or he will go right behind your back and cheat on you.
4. You’re not a romantic type
Wait, you don’t like breakfast in bed, surprise gifts at work, or surprise dinner at your favorite restaurant? Girl, what kind of planet did you come from? The worst of all, you think Valentine’s Day is the stupidest of all. Babe, I’m looking at you with a 5G camera. Don’t tell your boyfriend that. You will just make him comfortable with being lazy around you.
5. You have secret money stashed somewhere
You shouldn’t flaunt it in front of your boyfriend. It feels good to have a financial cushion that provides comfort especially in trying times. Everyone should save money for emergencies that shouldn’t be revealed to anyone. The essence of having a secret stash is that only you can have access to it. Telling your boyfriend you have an emergency fund is a bad idea. Suddenly, he will remember he needs money to solve a certain need “urgently.”
6. You’re a flirt
To avoid problems with your boyfriend, please don’t flirt with anyone except him. Even if you feel it’s your right, after all he’s doing it too, please don’t. Relationships also involve compromise. You should apply that to yours.
7. You hate your body
Your self-esteem should never be questioned. Treat yourself like the queen you are and watch your boyfriend treat you like one. But treat yourself as trash and you will be trash to your boyfriend, comprende? Do you want to be treated like a queen or trash? Only you know the answer.
8. His family is trash
His family may probably be rude, uncouth, or just plain terrible towards you. He probably knows that too. But it’s not your place to tell him. If you’re hoping for an engagement ring from him, don’t tell him terrible things about his family. Unless you don’t care about staying in the relationship any longer, don’t divulge the extent to which you loathe his family. If you can’t handle their wahala, then just call it off and leave.
