3 Little Things A Good Man Does For You Only When He Wants To Stay Committed Long-Term With You
1. He keeps his agreements
He takes you out when he says he is going to take you out. He calls when he says he’s going to call. Reliable adults keep their agreements. They aren’t afraid of commitment. It’s what makes them better men.
They don’t want to lose you and they value you. Passive aggressive, non-committal men make agreements — they just don’t always keep them.
One way to cut through the noise is to ask, “Do you want to be in a long-term relationship with me?”
This isn’t asking him to agree to marriage or anything; it’s creating clear ground rules and building a foundation for honesty.
2. He makes time for you
Successful men often have no time. They don’t have time but they make time.
They make you a priority because they value being in a relationship. Even when they are extremely busy, they make time to connect with you.
Commitments to a career and friends are also important, and they take up someone’s time, too.
But if a clear pattern of him choosing other things or people ahead of you emerges, it might be time to evaluate the future of the relationship.
3. He has a plan
If a man only talks about how he feels (i.e. how much he loves you, how amazing it feels to be with you, how much fun it is being with you), he’s just doing what feels good and is not necessarily committed to you.
Responsible adults shoulder responsibility.
This is the most important thing I want to share with you. A committed partner has a plan for both of you and he tells you what it is.
