One of the biggest threats to a relationship is when one or both of you stop trying. We all know the honeymoon period isn’t going to last forever. Once the butterflies in your stomach start to fade, you’re entering a new phase in your relationship where you’re both comfortable being yourselves. But, be careful, or you could start to lose sight of why you’re coupled up at all. Here are some things that can undermine any relationship. You should avoid at any costs.
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Betrayal in relationships is not just about s*ex with someone else, it’s also about relationships over the internet, like hot conversations with someone else.
When betrayal is discovered, forgiveness is still possible, but it is very difficult – for both a woman and a man – to forget it. Perhaps even instinctively, during a fight, it is possible that the story will eventually be thrown in the face and the dust raised again. So if you don’t want to go through this, escape the temptations.
2 – Abu$e and disrespect
No one likes to be in love with someone who abu$es her personally, emotionally or even physically, messing with their partner’s things or even with physical aggression. Abu$e is never welcome in relationships, and disrespect is not.
Therefore, avoid situations such as poking around at your partner’s cell phone or yelling at him during discussions. Admittedly, these abu$ive and disrespectful attitudes are not expected of him either, and if he does so, you must do something about it.
3 – Lack of sincerity and honesty
No one likes to be deceived or to have a partner who lies and omits facts from his partner, much less from someone who is dishonest, either with his partner or with other people.
So always try to be honest in your relationships and keep an eye out if your partner signals that he is not honest with you or, even worse, dishonest. Sincerity can be practiced even in very simple situations, such as by saying what was the actual price you paid for a particular purchase. So avoid lying and omitting and encourage your partner to be that way too.
4 – Lack of mutual support
A couple who are unwilling to “be there” and help each other out when necessary have a high chance of failing in their relationship.
When two people come together and know that they can count on each other even in the most difficult situations, the bond that binds them together becomes even more intense and resilient.
5 – Bad communication between the two
The lack of communication or failures in the couple’s communication can directly affect the health and harmony of the relationship. When one begins to “think” that the other thinks this or that and assumes it to be true, a real problem is in the relationship.
The two should invest in communication, always trying to say what they think and what they want to each other in a kind and polite manner, without aggression or rudeness. If either of you or both have trouble communicating and cannot solve it alone, you may want to seek help from an expert.
