Betraying or chєαtíng on your partner comes in different forms that might not be easily identifiable. Do you also know that the mini betrayals that mostly make the part of you are the ones capable of damaging your reputation and your marriage? Does it even hit you that you are actually betraying your partner? You may think normal but if you have ever involved yourself in any of the following acts, then you have ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛᴇᴅ on your partner without knowing it.
1. Flirting
That joke you make with a team member or your workmate is one of the ways you are chєαtíng on your partner without knowing. When flirting with other people you usually take it lightly thinking that it is not a form of betrayal. You need to know that flirting can lead to some sort of seriousness which might go to the next level of doing things and relating to one another.
2. Spending time elswhere
Accepting that lunch invitation from a person of the opposite s.ex can result in an urge to see each other more often. This can lead to unintended things happening. If you must go for that invitation, then it’s important for you to include your partner so that you don’t betray her without even knowing. Spend more time with your partner in order for you to avoid ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛɪɴɢ on them.
3. Talking negatively about your partner
As you say negative things concerning your partner in his/her absence or knowledge is one way you can betray your partner without knowing. Why talk ill about your partner in his/her absence? It is advisable always to be positive minded. Betraying your partner can take many forms and talk negatively about your partner is one of them. You should always talk positively about your partner.
4. Publicly belitting your partner
If you never knew that this is one form of betraying your partner now you know. Your partner deserves respect whether in public or private places. Always avoid showing your dirty linen to the public, and you must at all times respect your partner. Control yourself even in situations when your partner pisses you. Never be angry at your partner in public as it is quite humiliating and can create distance between you two.
