Have you ever sat across the table from a man and wondered what draws him to you? You know you look good and you think that is the only reason he likes you. The fact is it goes deeper than just looks. Here are things men are after in women:
1. Independence
A genuine man doesn’t desire to be a constant caregiver. Avoid being excessively dependent, as it may push him away. Even within a relationship, maintain your individuality and stay true to yourself. Being in a relationship shouldn’t involve relying entirely on your partner for all your needs.
2. Honesty
Trust serves as the foundation of any relationship. Deceiving your partner complicates the trust dynamic. Even if a lie seems inconsequential at first, over time, it erodes the trust that forms the basis of your relationship. Lack of trust also builds a wall between you and that engagement ring. Make sure you keep all your interactions open and honest. Don’t hide things from him, because one day he might find out and the relationship goes down the drain.
3. Supportive
While society often demands strength from men, there are moments when they seek comfort and support. In challenging times, a man looks for a supportive presence. It’s crucial to be a good listener and approachable. However, it’s important not to be excessively nurturing to avoid evoking reminders of his relationship with his mother.
4. Smart
Men appreciate engaging in conversations and seek someone with whom they can share their thoughts. It’s not just about talking; they desire intelligent and meaningful discussions with you. You need to be able to understand current events and sustain a meaningful conversation. This comes into play when you meet with his friends or family too. Men are also drawn to women who can grasp new concepts.
5. Humorous
Not everything needs to be serious between the two of you. As much as you want to get into a serious relationship, you shouldn’t be serious all the time. Be humorous and easygoing. Know when to joke and when to be serious. Men want to laugh, and will get closer to you if you make them do it
6. Up for Action
Men like adventure and they are looking for someone to have it with. Always try to give your man a chance to play out their wild side. If they want kinky, go for it.
Final words
While resembling a supermodel is not frowned upon, men are interested in more than just makeup, curves, smiles, clothes, and great hair. They are looking for qualities beyond physical appearance.
