Quarrelling in front of your kids is bad enough, but ᴀʙᴜsɪɴɢ your partner is even worse.
These are some reasons you should never do that:
1. YOU SET BAD EXAMPLES
This is one of the reasons why you shouldn’t ᴀʙᴜse your partner in fron of your children. Children learn a lot of things as they grow up, and you don’t even know that they are picking up things from you. Parents are a child’s first role model; so you can imagine the inspiration they get from you when they see you ᴀʙᴜsɪɴɢ each other.
2. YOU LOWER THE REPUTATION OF YOUR SPOUSE
When you go as low as disrespecting your partner in front of your child(ren), you give them that impression that it’s okay to be disrespectful. So your child will tend to disrespect the spouse that’s being ᴀʙᴜsed.
3. YOU HURT THE KIDS
Have you ever imagined the scenes that play in a child’s head when their parents ᴀʙᴜse themselves? Your child will feel hurt from this, and it’ll have a devastating effect on them as they grow up.
4. YOUR KIDS WILL START TO TAKE SIDES
This is another important reason. As your kids grow older, it would take little time for them to start picking sides. Rather than love both their parents; they’ll love one and hate the other.
5. YOU GRADUALLY KILL THE UNITY IN THE HOME
The next thing that comes up will be division; your family that ought to be united and loving, will now become divided, just as a result of the things you say with your mouth.
