Using ᴠɪᴏʟᴇɴᴄᴇ to Teach Children Will Badly Affect Children’s Mind and Body. Instead, Parents Should Spend More Time And Themselves Set An Example For Their Children. That Is The Right Education Method.
In today’s technology era, it is extremely easy for children to get access to the phone. Due to the increasing workload and the limited time, many parents have no choice but to let their children use the smartphone. This unknowingly leads to the fact that their children gets addicted to phones and can’t focus on learning as well as other healthy forms of entertainment. This is a problem that most parents are facing.
There are a lot of harmful effects of phone addiction in children. In addition, the real stories on the negative side of the phone make parents think over teaching methods for their children.
8-year-old boy was taken to the hospital due to dizziness and after 3 hours, he never woke up.
According to Alobouwang, recently, a heartbreaking story happened in China that made many people sad. A couple held their son and rushed to the hospital. They looked around with panicked faces but didn’t know what to do. The nurses quickly ran to ask for help. The boy’s father said that his son fainted and needed emergency as soon as possible.
At this time, the nurse rushed to find a doctor to check the child. The baby boy had an intracranial injury and needed immediate emergency care. However, unfortunately, the boy passed away 3 hours later despite being helped by medical staff.
Upon receiving the news of the death of his son, the father was very heartbroken, burst into tears and lost his mind. Meanwhile, the wife couldn’t accept this truth, blame herself and hit herself in despair. Witnessing this tragic scene, the medical staff took turns to comfort the couple, hoping they could soon overcome the pain.
After this couple calmed down, the mom said that her son was lazy to do his homework and only focused on using the phone. That made her so angry and then she couldn’t control her anger. She ʜɪᴛ him on the head, making him dizzy and fainted.
After hearing the story, the doctor realized that this is really what many parents are doing, which will cause a lot of danger to the body of young children. They need to consider this ᴠɪᴏʟᴇɴᴛ parenting method.
When children are in the developmental stage, they will imitate the way of life and behavior of their parents. In fact, parents are considered to be the reflection of their children. Therefore, if you want your child to learn good things, you should set an example for your children.
Most parents often complain that young children are difficult to teach. However, they then get so absorbed in work that they forget to find out what the real reason is.
Modern life makes adults more exposed to the phone to work or entertain themselves. When a child wants to talk to you, play a game with you, or simply share something interesting, you are absorbed in your phone and absent-mindedly responding. If this happens often, invisibly, the child may imitate you and think it’s appropriate behavior. When a child is addicted to the phone, the child will no longer be interested in communicating with parents, and it will become more difficult for you to get your child to obey.
Most of us would want our children to be obedient and kind. But sometimes, just telling your child about values and responsibilities isn’t enough. We have to show them our actions. You should be a good example for your children to follow.
Regularly communicating and sharing with children is the best way to educate children. Parents should spend a lot of time with their children.
No matter how angry you are, do not ʜɪᴛ them as a way to punish them. Because in any cases, physical punishment has never been a way to show your love to your children. This not only causes physical pain, but also has serious consequences for children’s mental health later in life.
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