There are many different ways for men and women to express their love and affection, besides the rare ultra-sensitive male. Especially, men and women think differently. So love can be confusing for a woman at times.
A popular, legitimate statement that is heard often from women is “Yesterday, he was the nicest guy in the world, and today he’s a complete jerk. I just don’t understand,”.
Keep in mind, men are only human, so they have a mood swing too. It doesn’t mean they don’t love you. The important part is that what a man says and does should be consistent. Men do exhibit a common set of behaviours that demonstrate their love for a woman.
1. He listens to you closely
In general, women tend to be better listeners than men, usually because men mostly focus on the things they are interested in. So, if a man is a very active listener and pays close attention to what you say, you can be sure that he loves you.
2. He shows vulnerability
Men are very careful not to do something that would make them look weak. However, when he is in love he doesn’t care if he shows vulnerability in front of the woman he loves. He will be comfortable with being himself in front of you, and you will probably be the only person he will do that in front of.
3. He isn’t afraid to make sacrifice
Personal sacrifices are always easier when we do them for the people we love. A man who loves a woman will feel discomfort if she is unhappy, especially if he can change that. He can also demonstrate his love for you by making sacrifices just to make you happy. Even if that means to put you first and change his plans in order to step out of his comfort zone.
4. He loves how you look even on your worst days
At the beginning of a relationship, we always tend to put more effort into looking our best, however in an actual relationship our comfort levels build and we tend to stop caring so much about our appearance. When a man loves a woman, he will love her in any situation, no matter how “bad” she looks like.
5. He fights for you
A man in love will never turn his back on his woman when she is attacked or threatened by someone, physically or mentally. He will do everything in his power to protect her and he will never be okay with hearing the hurt in your voice.
6. He is proud of you and he is not afraid to show it
If he truly loves you, he will feel proud of being with you and all of your traits. He will appreciate you as a mother, woman, hard worker or a person that is working hard to their goals. He will never let your efforts go unnoticed and he will never be upset about losing to you. Even if you are both have competitive natures, he will never be bothered by you being more successful than him.
7. He fights with you
This does not refer to domestic v.i.o.le.n.c.e or physical a.t.t.a.c.k. If a man is really emotionally invested in a relationship, he will never avoid fights from time to time. These fights usually occur because he is afraid of losing you and it is actually a defense mechanism that he uses to show how committed he is and that he is willing to make things work.
8. He treats your family and friends with respect
If he cares about you, he will never disrespect the people you love and appreciate, because hurting your feelings is the last thing on his mind. Even if he dislikes someone or he has nothing in common with them, he will never show it because you mean to him a lot more than that.
Sources: usefulgen.com, nayenews24.info
