7 Warning Signs Your Partner Might Be Having an αffαír
1. Your partner becomes emotionally distant
When you see that your partner is not connecting emotionally with you, but making excuses to stay away from you, that is a key sign of an affair.
2. Secretive behavior
If they are paranoid about reading your messages, or getting angry with you for answering the phone, you need to be suspicious. They will also often add passwords to their accounts, or change passwords you thought you knew.
If they are chatting online, they may close the computer screen every time you walk by, or try to distract you from reading what is on the screen.
3. A specific person’s name being mentioned more often
A partner starting to bring up a new co-worker, friend, running mate, or otherwise could be a sign of infidelity – or a slippery slope to infidelity.
If you question your partners about this new woman, you will get the answer, “we’re just friends!”
Men don’t share their emotions and inner thoughts very easily. So for your man to be emotionally invested in another person who is “just a friend” is definitely a warning sign.
4. Appearances change
Has your partner suddenly started losing weight, going to the gym, and changed his dressing style?
It could just be their new year’s resolutions finally kicking in, or it could be a warning sign that they are trying to impress someone else.
5. Your partner gets irritated with you more easily
Things that never bothered you before will suddenly become a big “problem” – like the way you eat, the way you say things, how much you weigh, or even the way you dress.
They will purposely create chaos, and cause a fight just for an excuse to leave the house.
They create a lot of internal conflict and anxiety, and it takes a lot of energy to keep an affair a secret. They will also be emotionally tired and irritated by you, the children, and life in general.
6. They stop talking about your future together.
The future is reserved for those with whom you imagine a future. If your partner has begun to see someone else, that person may no longer be you. When someone questions whether you will be part of their future, they talk less about their own future with you.
7 . Your gut tells you that something is happening.
Look, clear signals are great, but there is also just the simple fact that sometimes in a relationship your gut tells you that something is wrong. You know your partner and your “tells” better than anyone else! So trust your instincts.
Source:womansday.com, leandiebuys.co.za
