Flirting Techniques That Will Make You Irresistible to Him
1. Playful touches
Physical intimacy that creates bonding. Studies show that when you touch, hug, kiss on the cheek, hold hands, or even massage someone you like, your body releases oxytocin and boosts satisfaction.
Make you sexy by brushing up against him when you walk by or giving him a sneaky squeeze under the table. You can also pretend to accidentally bump into them if you are shy.
2. Draw attention to your lips
You can draw attention to your lips in subtle or risky ways. For example, you can apply a lip balm/lipstick while talking to them, lick your lips or even blow them a kiss if you are comfortable being bold.
3. Maybe a wink
Give the guy you like a flirtatious wink. Take charge of the slow-paced interaction by giving the guy an opening that makes him sure of your interest in him. The playful wink can also break the ice and accelerate things.
4. Draw attention to your body
You can use creative ways to give your crush an excuse to notice your body and be attracted to it. Mentioning workouts, your clothes, or the possibility of getting tattoos can do the trick.
But according to research, the motivation behind flirtation is assumed to be different by men and women, resulting in miscommunication regarding its purpose. So be careful not to give the guy the wrong impression by being too bold highlighting your body.
5. Tease him
Some playful teasing can break the ice. Teasing brings in familiarity that removes any awkwardness that might exist. It can establish chemistry and maybe even ignite some sparks. It is a great way to understand how to flirt with boys.
6. Compliment him
When you compliment him, you’re telling him that you notice him. Compliments are a key factor in the art of flirtation. The next time you’re around him, give him little flirty compliments to make his day.
Try to be specific when you give compliments. Instead of saying, “You’re good at guitar,” say “you play so well, it gives me goosebumps!” or instead of “nice shirt,” try something a little more flirtatious like, “You look so sexy in that shirt.”
7. Look your best
When you don’t know each other very well, visual desirability can get his attention the best. Maintain your hairstyle and wear clothes that enhance your best traits. Also, looking good can never hurt while flirting as it can make you feel more confident and desirable.
