Marriage isn’t always milk and honey. Even Disney couples have their ups and downs, and real life is no different. There might be moments, though, when you feel something is completely wrong. Maybe all of a sudden, he started to arrive home late and, out of the blue, he casually changed his look too? Perhaps he’s doing his best to avoid you? Leaves early in the morning only to arrive home late at night, putting off a lame excuse that he has too much to do at work?
Have you always been the best for him, but now it seems the only thing he does is to compare you with other women?
All these are signs he might be attracted to another woman. Your heart’s empty now and feels so saddened. Attraction, though, doesn’t necessarily mean he’s chєαtíng.
Maybe you can still work towards saving your marriage, but how can you find the truth? If you want to know whether or not he’s loving “other woman”, here are the signs you should never ignore.
1. He reduces the time he spends with you
Be careful when your husband reduces the time he spends with you for no reason or a flimsy reason. The man who wants to be with you at all times now tells you he has a meeting, he needs to look through some files, or he needs to rest.
Relationships are different and the way married couples relate vary. However, one or more of these signs will surely be noticed.
2. He becomes a man with lots of secrets
It is normal for married couples to share every tiny secrets but if your husband hides from you to receive his messages or reply his text all of a sudden, then there is another woman in the picture. Such men find it difficult to uphold their words. In fact, at the slight provocation, they turn conversations into arguments.
3. He’s comparing you to others
When your husband starts comparing you to others, or mainly other women, then it’s a sign he’s clearly comparing you with the other woman he is in love with. He may not directly be comparing you to her, but he’s trying to throw hints your way.
4. He is charming only around the other woman
If your husband switches on his charming persona only when the other woman is around, then it’s a major red flag that indicates he is in love or attracted to the other woman. But if you don’t experience the same amount of love and affection when he’s around you, then something is definitely wrong.
5. The amount of compliments increase
You’ll notice that your husband has begun throwing compliments around a lot, whether he’s giving you some or throwing compliments at others. This sudden change in his behaviour is a way to identify that he’s truly in love with the other woman, so as to start appreciating people around him.
6. His noticeable body language
When your husband is in love with another woman, his body language will depict what he is feeling. He may appear to be distant from you and be more inclined towards spending more time outside. He may also keep saying that he’s super busy to spend time with you, when in fact, he’s out there with the other woman.
References: hernorm.com, timesofindia.indiatimes.com
