No relationship is perfect and every couple has rough patches.
If you’re with a guy who means the world to you but he’s slowly fading away then it’s normal to wonder what the hell is going on.
If his behavior has changed a lot since when you first got together, you may need to step back and reassess whether this is something you want to do anymore.
1. HE KEEPS IMPORTANT THINGS AWAY FROM YOU
This is one character trait I’ve observed in men; when a man cherishes his lady, he would tell her everything, he would rarely keep secrets from her but the moment he starts losing that value he has placed on his jewel, he no longer tells her things that are important to him; he gradually starts keeping things to himself. In simple terms, if your man values you, he would tell you things that are important to him but when he no longer values you, he wouldn’t mind keeping those things away from you.
2. HE WOULD SHOW LITTLE APPRECIATION
When a man values his lady, he would show her appreciation; he would compliment her beauty, appreciate everything she does and try to put a smile on her face at all times. However, when that same man loses value of his lady, he would rarely appreciate her, he wouldn’t feel obligated to put a smile on her face, he would only have a lackadaisical approach towards her.
3. TOO MANY COMPLAINS
Sometimes this might be the fault of the lady, sometimes it might just be that the man is tired of the relationship, but one thing that’s for sure is that when a man loses value of his lady, he would complain about so many things to himself, to his friends and even right at your face.
4. INFREQUENT COMMUNICATION
When he values you, he would want to be with you at all times, he would want to hear your voice at all times; hearing from you and seeing you is a priority but when he loses that value for you, communication becomes hard, it’s no longer a priority to him, communication levels would keep decreasing till he finally stops communicating with you.
5. 𝒮𝐸𝒳 TOOL
This is also another way you can know your man no longer values you. When a man is into his lady, 𝒮𝐸𝒳 is not the ultimate priority, but when he loses value of her, 𝒮𝐸𝒳 becomes the only priority, the relationship would be only about sǝx till he eventually gets bored of it. A man can still have little value for a woman but still have sǝx with her, the kind of sǝx that’s aimed only at satisfying his urge; in plain terms, she becomes a mere sǝx tool to him.
6. FUTURE WOULD BE BLEAK
When he values you, he might see a future with you and this would make the relationship have futuristic plans and objectives; but when he no longer values you, he wouldn’t see a future with you anymore, so this would make the relationship have no future plans, there would hardly be talks about the future till the relationship ends gradually.
If you have noticed these signs from your man, it’s best you sort things out or leave the relationship rather than be in a relationship where you won’t be valued.