6 Seemingly Small Things But A Loving Partner Will Never Do No Matter What Happens
1. Compare You To Other People
Since a partner who truly loves you shouldn’t be obsessed about how you measure up against other people.
You’re unique, different, and special in your own way, so you shouldn’t be compared to other people.
2. Pick Little Fights With You Constantly
Fights like arguments, or throwing of words are sometimes good for relationships because they strengthen our love and trust for our partners, relieve us of our emotional jam, help us to know each other better, and increase our intimacy levels with our partners.
However if your partner always picks a fight with you over why you didn’t do this or why you always do that, there may be a deeper reason behind it.
When a partner truly knows your worth, they will never be so bent on looking for opportunities to argue with you over the smallest things.
3. Put You Down Publicly
No matter how bad you may have offended your partner, it’s never an excuse for them to publicly put you down.
Instead, a loving partner will always look for ways to iron things out with you privately whenever you’re having a dispute about anything.
4. Be Too Busy To Be There For You
A partner that loves you, is going to be there for you no matter what. They’ll never be too busy to be there for you if they really care and wants you to be part of their lives.
However, missing your call while at work, doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t love you. Therefore, never expect them to always drop whatever they’re doing to be with you at any given time. Because you have to be respectful to their time and boundaries too. This makes your relationship last longer.
5. Say Things That Belittle Or Put You Down
A partner that actively criticizes or makes jest of most especially features we can never change like our heights, skin colors, etc, is just not worthy of us.
We don’t need a partner that intentionally and always hurt our feelings or belittle us for whatever reason. They shouldn’t be so bent on trying to change you unnecessarily because that’s who they fell in love with, In the first place.
6. Comment Regularly On How Attractive Someone Else Is Even If You’re Not Comfortable
If your partner are doing this, they’re simply not mindful of your feelings. A truly loving partner needs to be mindful of your feelings. A partner that’s nothing but cruel to your emotions and feelings doesn’t value you.
I’m not saying that it’s really bad to appreciate someone else’s looks and appearance or talk about celebrity crushes once in a while. But a partner that actively makes you uncomfortable with their nasty admiration of other people is simply not loving enough.
