The world promise is one of the most occurring words in marital relationships. Promise means to tell someone that you will definitely do something or something will happen.
For a courtship to lead to marriage, a promise must be kept. Even a lasting Marriage is a promise well kept. In courtship, guys make several promises to ladies who make them happy and eager for wedding but there are some of these promises that cannot be kept by men in marriage. Is it becoming a puzzle to you? Here are promises men are quick to make but will probably break:
1. He promises never to check any other girls out
First of all, it’s impossible to keep your eyes on everyone in the world. It’s very natural to look at people. However, your man will promise you he will never take a look at girls, and you’re the only one he will lay his eyes on. The truth is, he WILL look at girls. He will steal a look at the girl passing him by like you would do when there’s some guy who you think is super attractive. But, then, the next time, he promises you not to expect him to be human about it. Sometimes he will keep this promise, but other times he won’t.
2. He will promise to never think of any of his exes
When you get into a relationship with him, he will be swift to promise you he never does and will never think of his ex or exes. The thing is, all of us who have ever had an ex-know that’s a pretty big claim/promise to make. When we’ve shared our past with someone else, we’re bound to think of them at some point in our lives in our present. He will want to keep as happy and satisfied as possible, so it’s no surprise that he will make that promise. But, it’s very natural for anyone to have a thought or two of their ex. You might hate the idea of it. Cut him some slack.
3. He promises you to never hide anything from you
By now, he has probably made the promise of never hiding anything at all from you. Has he promised to tell you every single bit about himself and his life? No one does that. During all the time the two of you will spend together, he will somewhere or the other, for some reason, choose not to tell you something. So when he makes that unrealistic promise, please don’t fall for it, and at least not entirely. Give him his space and hope for the best.
4. He promises he will never stop doing things that he did to win you over
Remember when he did super sweet and unique things for you back when the two of you were only starting to get to know each other? He’s a keeper if he keeps his promises, but most men will stop doing those things somewhere down the road. It’s human nature to stop being as excited about a relationship as one was in its initial stages. If he loves you like crazy, he will probably keep up with all the things he did that made you fall for him, but most will stop going that extra mile and call it quits. Just be mentally prepared for him not to keep this promise.
5. He promises he will never judge you
Your man makes a promise that you can open up to him about anything in the world without fear of judgment. Unfortunately, judging is so deeply ingrained in human nature that he will break this promise at least once or twice. He may not tell you straight up when he disagrees with what you have said to him or told him, but that doesn’t mean he hasn’t judged you for it, and that’s just how it is. But don’t let this get to you because it doesn’t mean he is constantly judging you. He’s not. We’re just saying it’s impossible never to judge someone.
6. He promises you he’ll never get mad when you hang out with guy friends
Men get very protective and jealous. If your boyfriend or your husband tells you he won’t get crazy if you’re hanging out with your guy friends, it’s a long shot. He’s not going to be able to keep it. At some point, your man will get upset and jealous. Expect it to happen. Don’t be surprised even despite his promise.
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