Some people find committed relationships to be exceedingly scary, whether because they have never been in one before or because they had a particularly negative experience with love in general that caused them to question their choices.
Many people fail in committed relationships. You look at him and you simply see everything you want in your life, so what are the things that can, without a doubt, make him commit to you?
The thought that he might lose you
Of course, the thing that will frighten him the most is if you ever give off the impression that you’re going to leave or lose interest in him.
I know that you can’t make a guy commit to you using manipulation but this isn’t manipulation, this is the truth—he will lose you eventually.
You won’t compromise for anything less because of a man who obviously lacks direction in life. He will give you his whole attention if he truly wants you.
With that said, do something that will show him that you’re not constantly available and that you will leave him if he doesn’t take you and the relationship seriously.
Go out more and exchange looks with other men who flirt with you.
Emotional intimacy
It is uncommon for men to have an emotionally personal relationship with someone, and when they do, it is a novel experience.
Simply start with questions about his everyday life and then go deeper, asking him about his philosophy of life or his perception of the divine power.
Inquire about his feelings after splitting up with his previous partner, and above all, refrain from passing judgment.
Try to understand his position and his way of thinking. Of course, emotional intimacy doesn’t appear overnight but it comes with a lot of communication.
Vulnerability
When you cross a line with him and you two become emotionally intimate, it’s time to get vulnerable.
He will be able to commit very soon if he can see in you someone who will support him without question. Most people struggle with commitment because they fear being wounded.
Knowing that he can take off his mask of a strong man in front of you will give you two connections that can’t be explained.
Even if he cries, please don’t use harsh words like ‘man up’ but rather let him be weak for a moment.
Furthermore, be aware that exposing your own fragility shouldn’t ever frighten him. Rather, it should help him realize that strong women’s greatest quality is their vulnerability.
S*хuαl attraction
Men love s*x. It’s that simple.You just need to be yourself to be s*xually appealing to him; you don’t need to be a model.
Be confident in who you are and wear all the clothes that make you feel comfortable and sexy.
It’s enough that your s*xual desires align; you don’t need to dress in skimpy underwear or skimpy dresses.
Make sure that they match so that you don’t have a problem later on if he has a high desire for sex when you don’t crave it that often.
A relaxed environment
If you keep on complaining to him how he’s unavailable for a committed relationship, then he’s going to leave sooner or later.
Don’t. Instead, create a relaxed environment where you two can easily grow together into an amazing couple rather than forcing it, which won’t make either of you happy.
Simply stop talking about commitment and see what happens, because he might even get scared that you don’t want to commit anymore and it will make him think about it seriously.
