5 Signs Your Man Is Frustrated About Your Performance
1. He is irritable and has a short fuse.
Does he snap at you for no apparent reason? Is he constantly irritable and has a short fuse? Maybe his mood has changed recently, or it’s been different for a while. If so, consider the possibility that he started to be frustrated about you.
Couples connect through s3x, and when that connection is compromised by a lack of s3x, couples become less understanding and sympathetic.
2. He becomes distant.
If he is s3xually frustrated, there’s a good chance that you have been frequently rejecting your man’s s3xual advances. So, he is being distant as a defense mechanism to avoid your rejection.
When being rejected, it hurts. Therefore, he gave up on initiating s3x to prevent the source of his hurt feelings by distancing himself from you.
Perhaps he didn’t say anything about it (and isn’t going to), but if you frequently turn him down, it’s likely the cause of his frustration and the reason he became distant.
3. He stops initiating s3x and avoids the topic of s3x.
This is likely because he has been turned down too many times, and he doesn’t want to risk it happening again.
Additionally, talking about s3x might make him uncomfortable. Or he may be scared that you’ll judge him or reject him again when he expresses his desire.
4. He is less affectionate.
If you are frequently rejecting your man’s advances, he may not feel desired, appreciated, or even loved. Therfore, he reacts to this by withdrawing and becoming less affectionate with you. He doesn’t want to risk being rejected, and it pains him that he feels unwanted in the relationship.
This is why he stops showing affection altogether. It’s not just that he stopped initiating s3x, he stopped initiating any kind of affection, such as cuddling and kissing. He became cold and distant and possibly doesn’t show affection in any other way either.
5. You fight more often.
When the s3x is gone or not satisfying, couples disconnect on a deep level and become agitated and easily annoyed by each other. This is why they start fighting more.
Your man is probably starting to argue for no apparent reason other than his bad mood. The two of you should remind yourselves to make l0ve, not war. Once you’re having a fulfilling b3d life again, you will have fewer arguments.
