5 clear signs he is taking advantage of you and not interested in a lasting relationship
1. He closes himself off
He closes himself off. You want to give him the benefit of the doubt and suppose that he’s just shy. But, as days pass, you never really get to know about his friends, his plans or his life. It seems that he doesn’t want to share anything with you. There is a communication gap because he never expresses his strong feelings. He might often come across as angry or upset, but he won’t tell you why.
2. He expects too many favours
If he always need something from you, he’s not in love with you. He might say he loves you, but actions always speak louder than words. If he always asks favours from you, or if you feel you are the one doing things to make him happy and he doesn’t reciprocate, he might be in the relationship only to fulfill his personal needs.
3. He is reluctant to compromise
This reluctance is among the most evident warning signs you’ll ever get. Whether it is work or personal life, his needs come first over yours, and he treats you like an option instead of a priority. He’s always busy, you don’t go on any real dates together, and he gets upset if you ask for anything. A person will always make time for you and put your needs first to make you happy if they truly care about you.
4. He doesn’t show physical affection
There’s no physical intimacy and conversations about needs and wants. He doesn’t seem very interested in pleasing you. You also begin to realize that you don’t see him doing nice, thoughtful things. If you experience these, he might be using you, and you must heed the warning signs. Have an honest conversation, as it could just be that they express love differently.
5. He doesn’t care about your dreams and goals
Having similar values is one of the most important things to make a relationship work. While career, family, and ambitions are all crucial, if all he cares about is his dreams and personal growth, without taking your dreams and goals into consideration, he is using you. You will struggle to grow with him, and your relationship may feel toxic or stagnated in such circumstances.
