In life, there will come a time when you realize that saying a thousand words is better than saying nothing at all. Please refer to the 4 situations below:
1. When being overlooked, don’t say angry words
Remember, in this world, the person who really doesn’t look down on you is the person who cares about you. One day, when you are no longer important in their eyes, it means your relationship has ended, and you should thank them, don’t be angry.
2. When being insulted by others, don’t say nonsense or meaningless words
Life cannot always be smooth sailing. When being insulted by others, many people will be lost in thought. When they are restrained by pessimism, they will easily speculate wildly and be confused. At that time, people often exude and say meaningless words.
Therefore, when being insulted by others, the best attitude is not to be dissatisfied, but to reflect on yourself, objectively analyze and find out the reason why you are being insulted. give it away. In this world, the person who can save you is yourself, what others can do is only advise.
3. Be jealous of others, don’t spread rumors
Jealousy is a bad habit that many people encounter. Jealousy will affect both a person’s body and spirit. It gives birth to hatred, harming those who harm you.
What a person should get is that their destiny has been arranged based on the “virtue” and “virtue” they have accumulated. If you want good things, remind yourself to do good and do good deeds. When dealing with people who are better than you, you should not be jealous or envious and spread rumors to harm them. Because, in fact, harming others is also harming yourself.
4. When others praise you, don’t say crazy or arrogant things.
When others praise and affirm your ability, it is because you are good at a certain field. But in reality, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, so don’t be arrogant because of that. In life, we need compliments, but don’t become arrogant and self-centered because of the admiration and praise of others.